We see it and do it enough times to know just how it works. Resolutions are set, goals written down, strategic action plans put in place. And where does it end up? More often than not, we dont lose the weight, we dont keep the budget, we dont straighten out the relationship whatever it is we were after, frustration or despair get in the way and we end up at square one. But getting what we want is easy REALLY EASY - if we just change our approach. Believe it or not, it isnt about more action, or stronger resolve, or reading yet another self-help book. A simple understanding of one principle changes everything! With the snap of your fingers, you can have/be/do anything you dream of without the effort you think it requires. Sound too good to be true? Well, its the only thing that IS true so read on, unless youre committed to doing it the hard way! Power of the Law of Attraction Youve heard of the Law of Attraction, right? Like attracts like. But do you understand how this works in daily life? What you may not realize is that your thoughts, feelings and emotions send out vibrations that the Universe responds to in like fashion. So when youre feeling good, youre sending out good vibrations and thus good things enter your world. When youre feeling bad on the other hand, youre sending out bad vibrations, and bad things, events, people, etc. find their way to you. Understanding this not only explains your current state of affairs, but also gives you an incredible tool to make life what you want it to be. All we need to do is align our thoughts, feelings and emotions with what we want. That means well be vibrating on that want and the Law of Attraction dictates that it will be delivered, exactly as ordered. Lets look at how this shows up in real life for us. This isnt a phenomenon that you just choose to put to work whenever you think about it. This is at work every minute of every day! It never stops! What Do You Want? What vs. How says that rather than focus on actions to solve your perceived problem, your better off focusing on What. What is it you want? Six new clients this week? Buns of steel? A boyfriend for Valentines? In pursuing a goal of six new clients, for example, we might be inclined to jump into action. We might devise a marketing plan, network for referrals, or call prospects like mad. If we take this action, though, while were concerned about not getting new business, or worried about how to cover expenses, or believing theres no way we can really get six in one week, were vibrating something contrary to what we want. Weve fallen into the How trap and set ourselves up for failure. On the other hand, if we first became crystal clear about what we want, and relish the feelings of getting it, were now vibrating in perfect alignment with what we want. As we do that, we may be inspired to take certain actions, like networking or advertising or maybe not. Regardless, because of the Law of Attraction, we will receive what we want when we are in alignment with it. This is the power of focusing on What! Focus on What, Not How! How doesnt matter its all about What were sending out. Think of your thoughts, feelings, and emotions as a sort of cosmic boomerang, where whatever you send out comes right back to you. Now, if you find it easier to focus positively on gaining six new clients while youre taking frenzied action, then thats one way to do it. This brings up an opportunity to examine your belief system, but the important thing to know is that getting what you want isnt achieved solely by actions you take. Its how you feel about those actions its WHAT youre feeling, rather than HOW youre going about it. Its all about What, not How. So the next time youre stumped as to why youre not getting what you want, stop and ask yourself what youre vibrating. The key is in the What, not the How! |
